It's really difficult to think rationally when you break up with someone. Especially if you really love them. Breakups happen for so many reasons, some of them justified, others, not so much. If you think that maybe you've made a mistake, you often wonder how to get him back. I've done this several times in my life and I don't have the perfect answer but here are a couple of ideas that I've tried and had success with.
The first one goes against something that I really don't like so much. It involves jealousy. I don't put up with jealousy while I'm in a relationship. Trust is one of the most important things to me. I establish that right away and I will not tolerate jealousy since I give my man no reason to be jealous. Don't get me wrong, if I see my man a little irritated when he sees another man looking at and admiring me, there's nothing wrong with that. I mean the type of jealousy where it turns into anger or questioning. Anyway, back to where I was headed. I don't believe in using people so I won't just find anyone to try to get my ex back. If there is someone that I'm somewhat interested in, I will go out on a date with him and make sure that my ex either sees it happening or at least hears about it. Nothing gets a man's attention quicker that to think that you may be moving on. Let him make the next move.
Almost the opposite of the jealousy maneuver is becoming a bit of a recluse. Let your ex know that your life is just terrible without him. You can usually do this through mutual friends. Don't take forever though. If he doesn't come back in a fairly short amount of time, try the jealousy way.Follow This Link